If you’ve ever been in the midst of a heated argument with someone, you’re likely aware of how tempting it can be to let your emotions get the best of you and unleash your inner beast upon them. Personal attacks, swearing and screaming may seem like an effective way to get your point across, but in reality, they’re not the best way to go about standing your ground in a conflicted conversation.
Trust me, I’ve been there. Once or twice I have taken the approaches I listed above in an argument, and although they may feel satisfying in the heat of the moment, you realize later that you arguably handled the situation rather immaturely. You may feel embarrassed or regretful, and if this has happened to you, it’s important to acknowledge that there are ways to handle an argument maturely yet still make your opinions heard.
The first thing to avoid in an argument is raising your voice. I know, this seems impossible at times, and chances are you’re dying to shriek like a banshee at the person you’re arguing with. Keeping your voice at normal levels is incredibly effective in an argument, however, and keeping your composure can also encourage the person you’re arguing with to maintain their own. If you stay cool, it’s probable the argument won’t progress into something out of a Tom Cruise movie.
Another great tip to keep in mind if you’re in an argument is to refrain from making things personal. Dragging irrelevant information into an argument with the sole intention of emotionally hurting another person is immature and ineffective, and chances are you won’t solve anything. Focus on the issue at hand, stick to the facts, and don’t lash out in a personal manner.
Arguing is tricky, but if you handle it maturely, you’ll find problems can be resolved in a far more efficient manner.
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